Colorado

Okay, so once again, I need some advice, here's the story:

Jason is one of my boyfriends best friends.  Over the last two years that my boyfriend and I have been together, he has became a really good friend of mine also.  He got this really good job and makes mookoo bucks.  Jason really likes Heidi.  Jason met Heidi through Casey and I.

Heidi is a friend of my boyfriend and I's.  We were friends with her and her xboyfriend.  My boyfriend was actually really good friends with the guy, and I ended up being friends with her for the simple fact that we went over there all the time.  We ended up becoming pretty good friends.  When they broke up, I kept my friendship with both of them, but Heidi comes to hang out with my boyfriend and I all the time.  Heidi only thinks of Jason as a friend, and does not want to be with him.

So, last weekend, Jason invited all of us to go skiing March 16th-19th.  He would rent the car, pretty much pay for everything, just each of us would need to bring $200, and give it to him. 

So here's the problem:  Last night Heidi called me crying because her and Jason got into a fight.  He kept trying to kiss her, and she kept backing up, and she tells him all the time that she just wants to be friends.  So of course, he is saying "Well then I guess you are not coming skiing."  He is being a complete ass to her.  I am very proud of her for not playing his games until the trip is over.  She just said fine.

So, should I still go??????????? 

TheJoeD on
I would say, boycott Jason until he gets his head out of his ass.
Mnm12211 on
wait, i'm confused, i though he was YOUR boyfriend?
lisakaye on
I agree....if he can't act like an adult about it....don't go!  But I can see the dilemma, I'd be torn, too.
lindzykoch on
No, Casey is my boyfriend...Jason is our friend, who likes my our friend Heidi....and Joe D, what do you mean by that?
TheJoeD on
Basically, don't go on the trip. Jason will feel like the third wheel, and will probably bitch about Heidi the whole time.
lindzykoch on
Gosh, I my boyfriend and I have already taken the time off work!  I really want to go...............but I know I probably should not.
Timbo on
It seems like it will just be a vacation filled with a lot of drama if you go.
natanism on
Take a nice trip with Casey and leave Jason behind. 
cobruce on
I don't think so..but the choice is yours!  Sounds like things are his way or no way. Take the high road and let him get lost
lindzykoch
Female - 23 years old
LINCOLN, NE
United States
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